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Balancing Thoughts

Balancing Thoughts are things that you can say to yourself to help put negative, anxious or self-critical thoughts into perspective. Using them is a standard technique from cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) which is a helpful approach for dealing with difficult emotions, situations and experiences.

Try this! Over the next week identify any anxious or self-critical thoughts that go through your head and write them down. For each such thought think of a Balancing Thought that you could say to yourself to help put your negative or self-critical thought into perspective.

The Friend Technique: If it is helpful then imagine what you might say to a friend in your situation, or else imagine what a helpful friend might say to you.

Remember! Your aim in creating a Balancing Thought is to put the negative thought in perspective in a realistic way. It is important that your Balancing Thought is realistic and doesn't make false claims. The aim with a Balancing Thought is often to modify or point out exaggerations in the original thought. Although the modified thought may still have a negative element, it is not so severe as it was previoulsy and you can cope with it effectively. A Balancing Thought often takes the edge off a negative thought. It puts things in perspective.

What to Do with Balancing Thoughts: Once you have created Balancing Thoughts, say them to yourself to see if they help you to feel better or act more constructively in your situation.

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