Preparing for Divorce or Separation
For people who are in the process of divorcing or separating, it can be helpful to think through what you would like to be the outcomes of the process in a number of different aspects.
Below are a number of questions that it may be useful to run through as an aid to clarifying your thoughts at this difficult time.
Ideally, you and the partner you are separating from may both consider the questions below separately and then discuss them to see if you can reach any agreed solutions which will help each of you towards your outcomes.
1. If you have children, what are the outcomes that you would like in respect of your children's wellbeing and needs?
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2. What outcomes would you like to achieve for your own personal wellbeing and state of mind?
| Desired Outcomes | What might hinder the achievement of these outcomes? | What might assist the achievement of these outcomes? |
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3. What outcomes would you like to achieve for your own financial security?
| Desired Outcomes | What might hinder the achievement of these outcomes? | What might assist the achievement of these outcomes? |
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4. What outcomes would you like to achieve in relation to your personal relationship with the person you are separating from (husband/wife/partner) & how you manage the process of separation or divorce?
| Desired Outcomes | What might hinder the achievement of these outcomes? | What might assist the achievement of these outcomes? |
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